Tis the season for festive gatherings and spreading joy. But for some folk, a good handful of the merry-making hours will be spent in the kitchen. Sure, cooking delicious treats while turning the radio up or singing along to carols can be a joy in itself, but it’s also undeniably hard work. So, as you consider your plans and the logistics of your Christmas getaway, don't forget to show your gratitude to the hosts who will open their homes with warmth and good cheer – and most particularly to those who will be hosting not one but several meals over a few hedonistic days. Here, we've rounded up a sleigh-full of thoughtful gift ideas that go beyond the standard bottle of wine. From stylish home decor to gourmet treats, our selection ensures your hosts feel the love and appreciation wrapped in every carefully chosen present.

Brindisa


Brindisa Charcuterie Box, £85
Brindisa Charcuterie Box

If you’re going to stay with your host for a few days, do consider bringing a hamper of mezze, antipasti or the like. And, while generally speaking we love our presents to be a surprise, this one is well worth announcing ahead of time so that, for one snacky meal, your host can factor in your generosity and, perhaps, take a break. We’d supplement this by bringing some really good fresh crusty bread and a couple of bottles of red. Buy it.


Soho Home


Roebling Decanter, £135
Roebling Decanter

It is the time of year for rounding off pleasurable evenings with a snifter of something cockle-warming by the fire. If said tipple is served in a sparkling crystal decanter, then so much the better. There are other lovely decanters available for less than this one, but we do so love that this one has been named after John Augustus Roebling, the civil engineer who designed and built Brooklyn Bridge. If the budget will stretch to it, do bring a bottle of whisky to go with, or arrange for another guest to do so. Buy it.


Birdie Fortescue


The Sensational Stripy Candlestick, £35
The Sensational Stripey Candlestick

The soft flicker of candlelight is the only lighting we’ll consider at Christmas. And a really good candlestick ups the sheer loveliness all the more. We cannot think of a host who would not be enchanted with a stripy bobbin candlestick courtesy of Birdie Fortescue’s collaboration with Sarah Corbett-Winder. We like the red, but the green is equally delightful too, or indeed you could mix and match. Buy it.


Soapsmith


Bloomsbury Bath Soak, £30
BLOOMSBURY BATH SOAK

While everybody else relaxes and unwinds, hosts tend to spend a lot of time on their feet over Christmas. Why not, then, give a really beautiful bath soak? Even if they only get to use it after everyone has gone home, they will thank you for it nonetheless. We love this one from Soapsmith. As they say, ‘Our Bath Soaks are handmade in our home in Walthamstow using natural and nourishing ingredients including dead sea salt, coconut milk powder and essential oils to soothe, smooth and revitalise the skin, body and mind. An indulgent scent blend with Rose Water leaves the skin super soft and nourished, and fills the whole bathroom with our unique summer scent.’ Buy it.


Waterstones


Murder At The Holly House By Denzil Meyrick, £16.99
Murder At Holly House- Exclusive Edition (Hardback)

Who doesn’t love a spot of murder at Christmas time? Set in December 1952, festive plans go awry when a dead stranger is found in the chimney of Holly House. Naturally, blizzards cut off the remote village and – as in the finest of cosy crime traditions – there is another death and everyone is found to be hiding something. A total treat of a festive whodunnit – and this exclusive Waterstones edition is all the prettier for gifting. Buy it.


Toast


Patchwork Hot Water Bottle Cover, £45
Patchwork Hot Water Bottle Cover

Give the gift of comfort and joy with Toast’s water bottle cover, which is quite the prettiest we’ve seen in some time. Perfect for cuddling up with at Christmas and well beyond. Buy it.


Freight HHG


Rum & Raisin Torrone Chocolate, £13.50
RUM & RAISIN TORRONE CHOCOLATE

A sweet treat amidst the onslaught of carnivorous delights will never go amiss – especially if you ensure it is as thoroughly lovely as this dark chocolate torrone, which features nougat wrapped in a rum truffle and rum soaked macerated sultanas. Buy it.


The White Company


Champagne Trug, £105
Champagne Trug

Without wanting to be presumptuous, if your stay is likely to be sound-tracked by the hiss of corks being prised off bottles, then do consider giving your host a lovely champagne trug so that said fizz may loll in icy splendour. We like this simple but elegant stainless-steel example from The White Company. Buy it.


Daylesford Organic


Cutting Garden Bouquet, £60 – £80
CUTTING GARDEN BOUQUET

If all else fails, flowers will never not be welcome – and most especially this gorgeous bouquet, which is made to order by the reliably lovely Daylesford Organic. Buy it.


Rowen & Wren


Ember Leaf Candelabra, £49
Ember Leaf Candelabra

For the most enchanting of centrepieces, Rowen & Wren’s Ember Leaf Candelabra is a showstopper, and would make a welcome addition to any host’s table. Buy it.


Straw London


Wavy Edge Terracotta Bulb Pot, £38
Wavy Edge Terracotta Bulb Pot

Picture this prettiest of wavy-edged terracotta pots filled with narcissi for the sweetest-smelling and most darling of gifts. Buy it.


Fortnum & Mason


Christmas Present Iced Biscuits, £29.95
Christmas Presents Iced Biscuits, 200g

Edible, sweet and endlessly charming, these present-shaped biscuits will be a hit with the whole family. Buy it.

By Nancy Alsop
December 2023